All posts tagged: Judgement

Judgement…

Do you judge others? Let me answer that for you… YES – yes you do! Don’t worry, I’m not judging you for judging, I am empathetic of the fact you are a human. It’s what we do best. Have you ever judged – then told yourself to stop being so judgemental? Have you judged subconsciously not realising until the thoughts entered your mind? Perhaps you’re not judging with nastiness, it might be out of genuine intrigue or a simple inability to hush your mind. Perhaps it’s self-harming judgement, so you are not directing the judgement upon others, you are reflecting it back at yourself? “Gosh I wish I looked like that”! “I wish my stomach was flat like that”! “I wish I had a job like that”! “I wish I had the confidence to be like her/him”! Judgement of the above is still harmful, you are admiring someone else but in the same instance are comparing and deeming yourself ‘not good enough’. Then there’s harsh judgement or judgement that is unkind: Where you find yourself …